50 Tips To Be That Girl!

꒰for everyone who wants to be more fem + this might be a bit tmi lol꒱

 

⤷ ゛Fun  ˎˊ˗

1.  Buy EVERYTHING in your favorite colors
2. Aestheticize your devices (phone, tablet, laptop, pc, etc) by changing your wallpaper, icons, font, notification/ringtone sounds, and more
3. Create playlists for every activity (studying, cleaning, doing makeup), setting (school, work, park, transport), or time period (morning, afternoon, evening)
4. Find a hobby that ISN'T digital (crochet, knitting, jewlery-making, kandi, bedazzling, etc)
5. Start scrapbooking or junk journaling
6. Print out photos of family/friends/celebrities and place them in cute photo frames
7. Buy a nightlight projector or glow in the dark stars for your room when you sleep at night (a cute option is a Pillow Pet Dream Lites!)
8. Watch more girly media
9. Read low-effort books from your childhood to relax (Dork Diaries, Dear Dumb Diary, Rainbow Fairies, Captain Underpants, Dog Man, Raina Telgemeier books, and more! 

   ⤷ ゛Hygiene  ˎˊ˗

10. Apply matching lotion and body spray after showering
11. Always having a clean matching bed set
12. Wear silk bonnets or use silk pillow cases for your hair
13. Always wear cotton underwear to help your genitals breath!
14. Run bubble baths every weekend or whenever you're too tired to stand and shower
15. Avoid using scented products for your genitals, unscented soap and clean water will do! (ps: DO NOT GO INSIDE when cleaning, ladies! It is self-cleaning!)
16. If you struggle with sweating a lot, try applying powder in the creases of your armpits alongside deodorant (I prefer Secret Clinical Completely Clean!) 
17. If your room smells muggy or unpleasant but isn't dirty, try spraying sweet or fresh-smelling room sprays

    ⤷ ゛Appearance  ˎˊ˗

18. Get manicures and pedicures
19. Match your undergarments to your outfit
20. Have signature scents for different outfits, seasons, time periods, and settings
21. Accessorize your hair with clips, bows, beads, feathers, or headbands (if you wear braids, try getting colorful installations!)
22. Match your hair with your shoes or your shoes to your bag for a more cohesive outfit
23. If you ever feel ugly wearing makeup, focus on using makeup to enhance your natural features instead of hiding them
24. Buy matching pajama sets
25. Wear clothes that flatter your body shape
26. Try out new cute hairstyles for your hair type 

    ⤷ ゛Mental ˎˊ˗

27. Cut back on how much time you spend on social media
28. Instead of holding in painful emotions, keep a physical diary or journal 
29. Create a night routine that helps you relax and wind down
30. Watch girltubers who match your aesthetic + are uplifting and positive (my favs are Kennedy Rae & Manzura Avazova)
31. If you take meds or vitamins, customize your pill container with stickers or gemstones
32. Create a zen space in your room where you can relax BESIDES your bed
33. Avoid bright lights and invest in ambient lighting such as candles, soft lamps, or fairy lights 
34. If you talk to yourself, start referring to yourself as cute pet names like bunny, angel, and princess instead of mean words
35. Improve your self talk (ig. "I'm so stupid" to "I'm so silly"
36. Instead of beating yourself up for your mistakes, start sympathizing with yourself and search for the root problem
37. Rewatch childhood shows or movies whenever you're upset and need a mental reset
38. Whenever you're outside, pretend you're a mythical creature or character that matches the environment (park=fairy, pool=mermaid, etc)
39. Whenever you're stressed, try coloring in a cute coloring book or print out a coloring page instead
40. If you're religious, make your religion aesthetic (buy girly versions of religious text, create phone widgets that include quotes from your text, wear necklaces featuring your religion's insignia/symbol, etc)

    ⤷ ゛Physical ˎˊ˗

41.  Eat delicious, filling, and nutritious foods! (healthy doesn't necessarily equal a salad!)
42. Find ways to exercise that YOU like (can be non-traditional like rollerskating, dancing, walking, ballet)... Wii Fit and Just Dance can count as exercise too!
43. Create a period bracelet to track your period (How To Make It!)
44.  Treat exercise as a game, not a chore
45. Buy cute exercising equipment
46. If you have trouble standing for long periods of time, go on Youtube and find sitting workout videos instead
47. Find cute step counter apps (Odetake My Melody for iOs or Pikmin Bloom for iOs & Android)
48. If you get tired of drinking plain water, try infusing it with strawberries, blueberries, watermelon, lemons, limes cucumbers, and fresh mint/basil leaves
49. Drink aromatic or flavored teas instead of coffee all the time, especially during cooler seasons
50. Spend a few minutes out in sunlight to absorb necessary vitamin D (ensure you wear sunscreen if you're skin sensitive)